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Courtesy of an abundance of nervous energy, the little Virgo is a child in constant motion. It is vital that such energy has something constructive to do, otherwise restlessness and boredom will soon set in. The most serious potential problem here is tension mixed with over-worry. It is important to note that even the tiniest child can benefit from learning some relaxation techniques and it will be accepted all the more readily if a game is made of the process. This is a very practical soul, one with a great deal of common sense and an acute critical ability, which will stand the young Virgo in good stead when it comes to much of his or her school work. However, if left unchecked, the small Virgo can easily lose the inherently fragile self-confidence when the inner voice begins to nag. By virtue of the fact that these children are ruled by Mercury, they are very communicative and love to talk. They will be lively in arguments and debates with a good head for details. The little Virgo is excellent at forward planning and may well surprise his or her parents with the maturity of some of the thought-out notions.By nature generally neat and clean, Virgo children love books, reading and writing. The penmanship is usually clear and legible with school work being meticulously researched and presented. A very hard and willing little worker, this child often appears to be striving for the position of "teacher's pet," but nothing could be further from the truth...he or she simply loves to keep busy and fails to see the point of wasting time or idly sitting around. Other children may misinterpret the shyness of the little Virgo as diffidence or stand-offishness, thus it is important for any caregiver to encourage socialization as much as possible. Instinctively flexible, this little one quickly adapts to new people and new places, provided he or she is given the opportunity. Nonetheless, a place that he or she can call his or her "own" will be very important to this child from an early age. Somewhere to be quiet and store personal possessions apart from the rest of the household will need to be provided. Above all, other more boisterous siblings or family members should not be allowed to interfere with this little one's toys or hobbies.
Virgo children will not only want to know "why," but will also insist on being told "how." There is an insatiable thirst here for knowledge coupled with the capability of winning awards and grants leading to higher education. By nature, the Virgo child harbors a great love of method and order. However, given the inherent tendency here to be overly-inquisitive and frequently too meddlesome, great care should be taken to ensure that these little ones do not overhear discussion, gossip or comment on the evils of life and the faults of others. Within the family unit, these children will be devoted little souls and also very affectionate creatures...although they may not always get along well with "certain" members. As a general rule, this child has his or her own way in the home, but needs to be taught that an unkind criticism is often more painful and lasting in its effects than is a physical injury. Thus, the habit of unkindly judgment should be disciplined from an early age, otherwise the Virgo child is liable to become an exceedingly disagreeable and acrimonious adult.
The good and true things of life should be pointed out to the children of Virgo. They should be taught to believe that there is something of value in almost everything. If self-control is not learned, then these will be the most restless and active little busy-bodies of the entire Zodiac, forever getting into mischief. There is seldom, if ever, any requirement here to urge these children to keep at their tasks since they are rarely happy unless they are occupied and any inclination toward music should be strongly encouraged. These little ones are immensely quick to form likes and dislikes, which will be primarily manifested in the discrimination displayed in the selection of their food. In short, these little ones are tremendously notional. The digestive system of Virgo children should be carefully monitored...particularly as to stomach and bowel disorders. Indeed, many a Virgo child between the age of six and ten has experienced a narrow escape with regard to such ailments. The skin here is fine and sensitive, so coarse clothing should be totally avoided and their hair should never be combed or brushed with anything but the utmost care. In order for the Virgo child to flourish, he or she will need pure food, pure air, much kindness and the early acceptance of personal cleanliness and neatness.
Of course, as this little one grows, the personality will develop. With the maturity into adulthood, the young Virgo will exhibit plenty of energy and determination, together with a love of learning and the spending of much time in formulating plans. Virgo children are usually moderately lucky throughout life and have the tendency to marry when quite young.
The Virgo girl is reserved, somewhat shy and rather inclined to spend much of her time fussing over "this and that." A die-hard perfectionist, she is usually perfectly organized and something of a "neat freak" who loves to make lists...even lists of lists. This meticulous disposition is what leads her to be industrious and efficient. She is choosy in almost every aspect of life, including friendships, and prone to select companions who are as health conscious as herself. Since Virgo rules the nervous system, young ladies governed by this Sign are prone to anxiety, frequently caused by all the worrying related to small details. Studious and hard-working, the Virgo girl tends to get good grades, which bring her much satisfaction. Still, this young lady does not seek glory, she simply desires the good feelings which accrue from a job well done. A good academic school is suitable here and she is likely to spend plenty of time researching the options in order the select the perfect one.
The Virgo boy is both particular and fussy, as well as being neat and clean. He likes to look "sharp" but is practical with his money. Indeed, he tends to take a practical and logical approach to all aspects of his life. This boy will never be what is considered a "smooth talker," almost invariably delivering his feelings in an honest and straightforward manner. Very academic by nature, this young fellow thrives on anything that will stimulate the mind...chess and advanced calculus, for example. However, the trade-off means there is little time (or energy) for physical endeavors. Nonetheless, the boy governed by Virgo will probably garner top grades, gaining him entry to the best schools. This is all part of his big plan...a plan which is sure to include a successful career. Although seeming somewhat anxious and shy, the Virgo boy is defintely "going places" and can be counted upon every step of the way.
Aries Parent/Virgo Child: These two individuals will have much to teach the other since each views life from a completely differenct perspective. The Aries parent will act immediately and think later, whereas the Virgo child will analyze, rationalize, debate, consider and only then, might put forward a tentative toe. This little one cannot be forced...to do so would leave him or her a shivering and nervous wreck. Thus, the parent here must have patience...a trait not particularly associated with the Sign of Aries in any sense of the word. The key is balance between patience and stagnation. If left without encouragement, the Virgo child can become caught in a dense fog of over-analysis that will cloud the vision and prevent any forward movement. Luckily, however, the Aries parent will refuse to allow such a situation to continue for very long. For more in depth descriptions of the stages in the life of a Virgo child,
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The Ruling Planet of Mercury, associated with intelligence, reason and meticulous attention to detail, makes the Virgo child gentle but also a rather fussy little individual. This is a child who is always thinking and observing with the ability to quickly perceive and learn. As this Planet also rules the hands, children of Virgo tend to be very skilled with all types of tools and instruments. Since Virgo is one of the three Earth Signs (together with Taurus and Capricorn), any child governed by this element needs to be taught while very young to overcome bouts of depression and feelings of inadequacy that he or she is bound to experience from time-to-time. Earth children should be encouraged to laugh things off during such circumstances, rather than taking everything to heart so seriously. Solitude is also very apparent with the children of Earth and they often need to be somewhat pushed in the direction of making friends. Far-thinkers, these little ones will begin planning their careers while still quite young. Surprisingly, such a career frequently turns out to be exactly what the child had planned. The gift of a Virgo child is the ability to bring forth order so that it may serve others.
Qualities To Encourage:
Modesty - Reliability - Intelligence - DiligenceQualities To Discourage:
Shyness - Fussiness - Anxiety - Overly-Critical Nature (of both self and others)Suitable Future Careers:
Writing - Journalism - Administration - Teaching - Medicine
Taurus Parent/Virgo Child: These two individuals are both home-lovers with a passion for nature and its beauty. While the child here can be somewhat shy and anxious, the Taurus parent possesses a quiet confidence and can instill such a sense of inner peace and contentment into the little Virgo, providing the child with courage to face to world with his or her gifts and talents. The industrious small Virgo will work as hard as his or her parent to ensure a safe and secure future with the least amount of disturbance and distress...a place where the simple pleasures and fruits of life can be enjoyed to their fullest.
Gemini Parent/Virgo Child: Although both of these individuals are mentally alert and active, the Virgo child tends to be more shy and reticent than his or her Gemini parent. Both share a love of rational analysis, but this little one is more likely to try and bestow practial application upon his or her ideas. The parent here will encourage the child to have more confidence in expressing personal opinions and is sure to admire the sharp mind and acerbic wit. This will be far from a dull household. There will be an abundance of comings and goings, with a plethera of debates and discussions to while away the hours.
Cancer Parent/Virgo Child: These are two cautious and introverted souls. A safe and secure domestic sanctuary will be vital to both in order to recharge batteries. Thus, there will be a mutual understanding here for the need to retreat. However, that having been said, the little Virgo is by no means a recluse. Being ruled by the Planet Mercury, this child enjoys conversation and social interaction, but also being a child of the Earth, he or she will require a solid foundation and steady environment in which to be nurtured. This is something that the Cancer parent can most definitely provide in abundance, giving the little Virgo strength and confidence to face the world.
Leo Parent/Virgo Child: Although sometimes overwhelming, a Leo parent can do a great deal to encourage the confidence of the more introverted members of the Zodiac and this combination is no exception. The little Virgo can be shy and nervous with a mind that is overactive and anxious. Given the correct environment, however, this worrying mind can be converted into an incisive and agile mental state which brings out the inherent gifts for rational analysis and fine detail associated with the Sign of Virgo. These talents may be perceived not only in terms of mental ability, but from a creative point of view as well as converting nervous fidgeters into capable craftspeople. With the help of some Leo sunshine and praise, the little Virgo could very well blossom nicely within this parent/child relationship.
Virgo Parent/Virgo Child: Being of like minds, the parent and child here will undoubtedly enjoy each other's company immensely. There will be plenty of lively debates between the Virgo parent and Virgo child and bonds will be forged over crosswords and mental puzzles. Since this Sign is infamous for its inclination toward being health conscious, the child will be nutrient-filled above all others. Both are sociable souls and there is likely to be constant activity about the house. Since Virgo is by nature a somewhat anxious and nervy Sign, the parent here should be careful not to reinforce such traits, which are already inherent in the child. In short, care must be taken by the Virgo adult not to pass along such a disposition to the susceptible Virgo child who already possesses a proclavity to be nervous and anxious. In general, however, the Virgo parent tends to bring out the best in the little Virgo and, being so similar in nature, domestic harmony should be easy to achieve and maintain.
Libra Parent/Virgo Child: The little Virgo, frequently fussy about small details, is basically a neat individual. The Libra parent might try to get the youngster to mix more with others, but he or she is a quiet child and not particularly adventurous. Thus, the parent here will probably be more concerned with future ideas and become annoyed by the tiny details that the little Virgo seems to be fixated upon. The Libra parent will not care if fingernails are a little dirty or overly-long, provided people take notice of what does look good. On the other hand, the Virgo child needs to have everything "just so" which can throw the Libra scales totally out of balance.
Scorpio Parent/Virgo Child: The Scorpio parent is a very devoted individual and the little Virgo will truly appreciate this. Practical and earthy, this child enjoys in aiding others and will always be a valuable helper around the home. Obsessive as the Scorpio adult can be regarding how things around the house are done, this parent will know that the little Virgo can be relied upon to do things in accordance with the Scorpio standard...but the parent here needs to be wary of making the Virgo child something of a slave. Because of this little one's willingness to work, he or she can be taken advantage of. Blessed with a no-nonsense approach to life which appeals to the Scorpio nature, both individuals in this relationship usually possess a shared view of perfectionism. It is not unusual for the bond between a Scorpio parent and Virgo child to be an intense one indeed.
Sagittarius Parent/Virgo Child: This combination consists of a pair of magnificent talkers. Indeed, the Sagittarius parent and Virgo child could probably chat together all day. When telling a story, the parent here will view the overall picture, but the little Virgo will want to know all the details. In "Hansel and Gretel," for example, this child will be intensely interested in exactly what type of food the witch fed to the children and how much weight they put on. To Sagittarius, these are irrelevant details and the parent here might become irritated when the story is being constantly interrupted in such a manner. The Virgo child is concerned with practical everyday detail and will depend upon the Sagittarius parent to introduce him or her to the exciting outside world. When planning an adventure or trip, the little Virgo can be relied upon to help with all the details of what will be required and the Sagittarius parent can rest assured that nothing will be left out or even left to chance.
Capricorn Parent/Leo Child: This parent/child combination should get along quite well since they are Earth Signs and will have a lot in common. Both value work and expect much from themselves on a personal level. The Virgo child can depend upon the Capricorn parent to provide the needed material security and, in return, will ensure that the parent is never disappointed in his or her achievements. From an early age, this child is eager to earn his or her own money and can be depended upon to work well in the service of others. The Virgo attention to detail will be a source of constant pride to the Capricorn parent and this child will admire the parent's ability to take charge of a situation and provide the necessary support for this little one to reach desired goals..
Aquarius Parent/Virgo Child: There is likely to be much bickering with this parent/child combination since they disagree on so many aspects. The Virgo child can be very fussy and the Aquarius parent cares little for what are personally considered to be petty details. However, there will not be any emotional issues here as neither the parent nor the child has a need for tight emotional bonding. The parent will like the way the little Virgo enjoys helping out and how he or she is able to aid in putting those far-out Aquarius dreams into reality. Nevertheless, in order to achieve this ideal, there will be many small practical details that have to be seen to first...and the parent here might find the child to be critical if the adult comes home with yet another new plan. Indeed, the Aquarius parent often perceives himself or herself to be participating in a role reversal with the Virgo child and may become frustrated at the little one's criticisms and apparent lack of foresight. It will be necessary for both parent and child here to learn how to open their minds a little more to the perspective of the other. This combination possesses the potential to achieve much and learn a lot about each other's world.
Pisces Parent/Virgo Child: Since these two Signs are opposites in the Zodiac, each can provide what the other lacks. There will be much cooperation here and this is a loving combination both in the home and out in the community. The Pisces parent can supply an abundance of empathy and kindness to the Virgo child. He or she will also make allowances for this little one's critical nature. Since Virgo is an Earth Sign, this child fails to truly understand the world of emotions and is usually totally unaware how hurtful critical remarks can be, simply noticing small details and overcome with the desire to point them out. The Pisces parent can help this little one by teaching him or her to "chill out" and "go with the flow." In return, the Virgo child can help the Pisces parent to be more forceful and teach the adult how to aid others without becoming a doormat. This is a good combination...provided the inherent differences between parent and child can be accepted by both parties.